Cap'n Piledriver, phelings, Bommel69, AndiK,
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Due to a bug in the Forum software, you are technically not considered a member of this forum. That is why it takes so long for any message you write to be accepted by the Forum. Also, it delays the actual posting of your message by a day or more, resulting in the message appearing, perhaps, on page 2 or 3 or more. Most forum readers (including staff, it appears sometimes) only tend to read page 1 and so no one reads your message and in turn will not offer you help with your problem.
To All: If you look at a message you have written and there is not the word "Member" (in some form such as Member, New Member, Junior Member) under your avatar, you are experiencing the same situation.
To fix this, write to Mona or some other member of the staff to have them turn on the switch to make you an actual member of the Forum.